HOW YOU CAN MAKE ORAL SEX SAFER

Have you ever given it a thought? Even oral sex requires protection. Just like anal and vaginal sex, there can be problems here too – read infections – and therefore some kind of protection is necessary.

A host of disease carriers can move through bodily fluids. Some of the most significant ones are HIV, HPV, hepatitis, etc. Though it has been often said that some of these cannot pass through saliva, is it worth taking the risk? For all you know, you might become the victim of a fatal disease due to the inadequacies of medical science.

Condoms are the most effective at oral sex protection, just as with every other form of sexual activity. Both condoms and dental dams are 99% effective in preventing STDs transmitted through oral sex. It is true that using a condom on the penis and get oral sex on it is a no-go situation, but it is better than getting some nasty diseases.

Making Your Protection Erotic

If you are intelligent and imaginative enough, you can make your protection a part of the sexual erotica. It is not about whether you are having it with a condom or with a dental dam; it is more about the communication you partners have during oral sex.

Begin with eye-contact; the prime requisite of any type of sex. Tell your partner that they are going to get the best oral they have ever got. But remain adamant on them using protection. Curiosity would certainly get the better of them and they will agree.

There might be hesitation on your partner’s side, but you will need to warm him or her up with some foreplay. Titillate them by petting, kissing, fondling, whatever it takes, till they are fully aroused. They will agree if they are fully aroused. And even if they disagree (and the relationship is not monogamous), then you must back out without coming into contact with any of the partner’s fluids.

Making Fellatio Sexy with Condoms on

This seems to be a tall order, but it is highly possible. You will need to lubricate the partner’s penis with the condom on it. Make it slimy enough, but be sure that the lube you are using is edible, since it is a question of oral sex. Also, use only condoms. Do not use things like plastics and latex wraps since they will break during the aggressive actions you are about to carry out in oral sex.

Why does fellatio seem sexier without a condom? The reason is the moisture from the giver’s tongue which arouses the man’s penis. This is not possible with a condom on the penis. For this reason, lubricating the condom is important before you slip it on. This will give the required moisture to the penis. When you suck on it, the moisture will give the feeling as though the condom is really in the mouth without a condom.

Apart from the moisture, there are two important factors that are needed in oral sex. They are the pressure of the mouth and the heat. Some men will never enjoy oral sex with a condom on, but you could do other things to titillate him at the same time, such as fingering his anus, fondling is testicles, squeezing his nipples, etc. Also, remember that men love to see women giving head. So make sure that the man is able to see your tongue working on the penis. That itself is enough for him to ejaculate.

Here are the tips in short:

1. Make eye contact with the man.
2. Make noises such as you are finding his penis to be an extremely delicious sausage.
3. Make use of your hand to rub the penis from time to time.
4. Stimulate the other parts of his body along with the protected oral sex.

Some adamant men would not like the idea of oral sex with a condom at all. If that happens, just give him a reminder of the various diseases that can occur in sex without protection.

The Correct Use of Dental Dams

A dental dam is actually a protective shield that is used during dental surgery, but it can also be used as protection for your oral sex adventure. Dental dams are protections when men are giving oral sex to their women. It is actually a small latex barrier that is placed in between your mouth and the vagina or anus that is to be aroused.

Older dental dams were available only in a small variety of colors, but today they are available in all kinds of colors, shapes and sizes. They are good for oral sex provided on the vagina or the anus. Compared to condoms used in male oral sex, dental dams can be more effectively used to give female partners great sensations during vaginal or anal oral sex.

Basic cleaning procedures like washing must be employed before the dams are used. After washing – with warm water if possible – the dental dams must be wiped dry. Also you must hold it to the light and check if there are any holes or tears in the dental dam. You can try this better by running warm water through it.

You must remember to use only one side of the dental dam when you are carrying out your oral sex. Be sure not to turn it over. Make some indication on the dental dam, by writing some sexy message like ‘suck here’ for effect.

There are many places that sell dental dams. You can get them in drugstores, dental supply stores and even in places where sex toys are usually sold.

If you cannot get access to a dental dam, then a well-protected layer of plastic, or a latex glove or a non-lubricated condom can also be used. These are simple things you can make at home, but they will certainly work for your oral sex play.

Using a dental dam for vaginal and anal oral sex requires some practice too. There are actually two ways of doing this. One method is when the man holds the dam in place and the woman just sits back and enjoys the show. In the second method, the woman holds the dental dam at her vagina, and the man only focuses of giving the oral sexual stimulation.

Both choices can provide an equal amount of titillation; it is up to you to decide your preference. However, with new dental dams available in the market, this could be a redundant point, because they come with adhesives, which means that neither of the partners needs to hold it in place. They can both concentrate on simply arousing each other.

Before you begin giving oral sex to the woman, apply some lubrication – water-based is better – on the vulva or the anus of the woman. Doing so will increase the sensation and will also make the friction lesser. Many women do not lubricate naturally when oral sex is done on them, so this kind of lubrication becomes necessary. Lubrication is needed because the vagina and anus are both soft tissues and may not be able to bear rough licking from the man’s tongue.

Begin with light licking pressure on the tongue, lip and mouth. You will find that using the dental dam does not make the pleasure any less for the woman. You can work out different kinds of pressures till you reach the optimum point, i.e. a point where the woman gets maximum satisfaction. Use your eyes for communication. Just as men love to see women sucking their penises, women also love to see men licking at their vaginas.

Using Balms and Oils

There are some balms and oils available that can guarantee a more pleasurable experience to both the man and the woman involved. These are good lubrications to use, especially if you are using latex materials. Use water-based balms, and oils, since petroleum lubricants will eat away the latex on mere contact.

Safe Disposal of Your Oral Sex Equipment

There is no point if you use any equipment you have used in oral sex again. It is a disgusting thing to do, no doubt, but it is also unsafe. Also, the protection will have become weaker after one use, so there is a greater chance that it will rip away. The best way to throw them is in the trash. Flushing them down the toilet will only make you call the plumber and he will come to know what you were exactly up to!

Communication

Finally, you need to be always communicative about using protection during oral sex. You must tell your partner first, and convince him or her, about the need of the device. The inconvenience in sexual pleasure is but a small thing when you consider the tremendous protective benefits you will be getting.