POSITIONS FOR GREAT ANAL SEX

There are many misconceptions about anal sex, especially in those people who have never tried it out. One of the most common misconceptions is that anal sex can be done in only one or two positions, while for vaginal sex there are several positions that can be employed. But this is not true. Even for anal sex, if you are inventive enough, you can develop some very good positions.

There are many anal sex positions actually and here we are going to describe some of them. It is not possible to describe all of the positions in a single article, but the important ones will be described. Like vaginal positions, there are the usual standing, sitting and hanging positions for anal sex also. Couples must find out which position they can use to their best advantage and go ahead with it.

Here we describe five of the most significant anal sex positions, which are listed in sex manuals as the classical anal sex positions. For purposes of convenience, we have used the terms active partner and receiving partner. The active partner is the one who is penetrating the receiving partner's anus. Both active partner and receiving partner can be male or female. If the active partner is male, then the penis is used for insertion, or if female, then a strap-on dildo can be used for insertion.

1. Active Partner on Top – In this position, the receiving partner lies on his or her belly and the active partner rides on top. If the active partner is male, he will insert the penis in the anus of the receiving partner; or if female, then she can use a strap-on. In either case, the penetration will not be too deep. But it is a safe position, and actually convenient if the penis or strap-on being inserted is too long in size.

2. Spoons – Spoons position is a very common position that couples could use for foreplay as well as the actual sexual act. Here one of the partners lies on the side and the other partner penetrates him or her from the rear. As usual, penetration can be done with either a penis or a strap-on.

3. Doggy Positions – The doggy position is also known as rear-ending. The receiving partner stays on all fours while the active partner would penetrate the anus from the posterior. Penetration can be done with either the penis or a strap-on. The advantage of rear-ending is that it allows better penetration and hence a fuller feeling to the receiving partner. Also, the active partner can get the titillation of seeing his penis (or her strap-on) actually humping the other partner's anus.

4. Receiving Partner on Top – Here the active partner lies on the back while the receiving partner positions his or her anus above the active partner's erect penis or strap-on. In reality, the partner being penetrated has to do much of the work, so the line of difference between active partner and receiving partner is blurred.

5. Frog Position – This is a difficult position that can be used only when both partners have nimble but strong athletic bodies. The receiving partner is lying on his or her back, with the legs folded such that the knees point towards the ceiling. For better support (and opening of the anus), the receiving partner passed his or her hands through the legs. The penetrating partner kneels and positions the penis or strap-on into the receiving partner's upraised anal aperture. This position is definitely very arousing and helps the both partners to peak very fast, but there is one subtle drawback. The receiving partner is in a somewhat compromising position, whereas the active partner is in a powerful position. This can cause vibes of inequality between the partners. However, the advantage is that both partners can see each other's bodies clearly, and the active partner can also simultaneously fondle the receiving partner's penis or clitoris, as the case may be.

There are some points that can make the whole experience more pleasurable for the receiving partner. They are as follows:-

1. In the thrill of achieving their own orgasm, the active partners forget that the receiving partners must orgasm also. So, active partners must wait until the receiving partners attain their peak. Active women partners can fondle the male partner's penis and scrotum and masturbate him till he comes, while active male partners can do likewise with their women's genitals. Remember that only a few anal positions permit this kind of interaction.

1. If the receiving partner learns to contract his or her anal muscles, then the excitement is heightened for both the partners. If women contract their anuses, then the man loves the pressure on his penis. At the same time, the woman will feel smugger with the man's penis inside her anus. However, you must first gauge what your partner wants. If it’s a man and he wants little pressure on his penis, then you must relax your anal muscles. It is observed that circumcised men love more anal pressure while uncircumcised men like lesser, though personal preferences might differ.

1. Receiving partners must make sure to heighten the erotica with expressions. Being stone-faced when receiving in your anus will kill the entire experience for the active partners. Feel free to moan, make painful facial expressions, and such. If possible, smile and talk to your partner about what he or she is doing. Men love hearing about their penises when they are in the act. So, women must be sure to make the right exclamations at the right times, and if possible, also tell how much their penises are hurting their anuses.

1. Receiving partners should contribute towards the act also. They should fondle the active partner's genitals and proffer the anus in a better way for penetration. Men love it if their women sway their hips when being penetrated anally. Women can also touch their own nipples and breasts and even masturbate themselves when being penetrated. This is a powerful turn-on for any man. If you are a man being penetrated by a woman's dildo, then too, the sight of you masturbating your penis and genitals will give women the sense of great exhilaration.

Finally, try to enhance your overall experience with anal toys. If women want to penetrate their men, then they will definitely need a dildo as a strap-on. But even men who are penetrating women could use some toys like anal beads, anal balls, butt plugs, etc. as a kind of foreplay. One tip: If you are man penetrating your woman's anus with your penis, then you can receive the same kind of excitement by allowing your woman to put a butt plug in your anus before the act. This will allow both of you to enjoy the erotica of the anal experience.