THE G-SPOT MYSTERY

No sexual encounter is complete without an orgasm, and there is no better way of getting an orgasm other than stimulating the erogenous zones of the body. Erogenous zones are those regions which have the maximum sexual sensation. Both men and women have them, but in women the erogenous zones are more highly celebrated. The most significant female erogenous zone is the G-spot.

There is a lot of talk about the G-spot in recent times, but most men still do not know what it is. Here we try to unearth the enigma shrouding this secret region of the female body.

What is the G-Spot Exactly?

We owe the credit to Ernst Graafenberg for finding out about the G-spot (it is named after him!) and telling the world about it. Though Graafenberg found out about this region in the forties itself, it was only in the eighties that people began taking it seriously, and the medical world acknowledged its presence. However, there are some skeptics still, who deny the existence of the G-spot, but then there are a lot more who accept its presence and have even written books pertaining to the subject.

The location of the G-spot is behind the front wall of the vagina. However, the exact location differs from one woman to another. In average cases, it might be located one to two inches inside the outer folds of the vulva, but in some women it could be much deeper than that. In normal condition, the G-spot appears like a tiny pea shaped area, but it swells up when aroused and can become as much as a button.

There is difficulty in locating the G-spot because the region surrounding the G-spot is not very sensitive. Hence, if you want to locate the G-spot, you must rub exactly on the area. This cannot be possible when the actual penetrative sex is going on, and that is why most women never understand the presence of their G-spot. Some women pass through their entire sexually active life without even realizing they have such a highly erogenous region known as a G-spot in their bodies.

Locating the G-spot

Locating the G-spot has never been easy, and indeed, it has triggered much debate. It is not easy at all to locate this tiny reason in the unaroused state. A lengthy period of foreplay will be needed to find out the location of the G-spot. Men must take time out and be patient. They must stimulate every region of the woman’s vaginal tract. The G-spot will swell when stimulated. So, one way of locating this region is when the woman has just had an orgasm. That’s a sure time when the G-spot will be swollen.

This part of the article is for men who want to find out their women’s G-spots. Tell your woman to lie with her legs apart. Insert two of your fingers in her vagina and scour the area below her pubic region intimately. You can even ask your woman in what manner she wants you to pass the fingers inside her. Try to locate a small solid region within the vaginal tract that seems to be as large as a pea. In some women it might be bigger and easier to locate, but consider it to be pea-sized at the best. Some women may feel uncomfortable when you press the spot initially, but they will soon begin to get aroused with the touch.

Stimulating the G-spot

It is a fact that only men with crooked penises can stimulate the G-spot effectively during sexual intercourse.

Among sexual positions, the cowgirl position is the best for G-spot stimulation, since in this position it is the woman who controls the man’s penis. So, the woman is in a better position to get her own G-spot stimulated.

There are also several sex toys that are used to stimulate the G-spot. These toys have a crooked shaft in order to stimulate the G-spot effectively. There is a large variety in them; they can be thick or thin, short or long, depending on personal preferences.

If you are sure your G-spot is located deep inside the vaginal tract, then you will need a longer toy, but if the G-spot is quite close to the surface, then the longer toy will become an impediment. In such cases, there are short toys available to get at the G-spot.

If you do not get aroused quite that easily, then you can use a vibrating toy. Vibrators are available in plastic, metal and latex materials. Choose the material of your choice. However, if you are the one that gets aroused easily, then a softer material will do much better for you. You can choose a vibrator made of silicone, which is popularly called as the jelly massager. The speed of the massager is also important; there are several speed adjustments, and you should decide which one will be the most suitable for you.

As a final word, I would say that searching for the female G-spot is not a foolish thing to do. Most men feel that female orgasm itself is redundant, since it serves no biological purpose. But there is a very important connection between female orgasm and a happy married life. It is important for building a good communication between partners. Hence, it is important that men take the effort to find their partner’s G-spots. It will be time well-spent.